I have tried Adult Friend Finder before and I know that most of you reading this, like myself, are nice and relatively "normal" people who have been in long relationships, no regrets, good memories, but didn't turn out right in the end, probably have outgrown the club scene and are ready again for a serious relationship. (Funny but I think I have the easy part, from the stories the women I meet tell me, lots of my competition are freaks and it makes being normal, attractive and nice, a hot commodity!) I would have made a good cowboy in the old Western movies, honest, strong, and soft-spoken, a dreamer and a gentleman. (Too bad I was born in NJ and not Texas!) Boy next door with intellect, and enough street smarts to avoid trouble. I strongly believe in traditional values and concepts like "right" and "wrong" but believe in tolerance of other people's lifestyles. "You do your thing, I'll do mine". I am often been told I have a good heart, like to please a woman and care about other people's feelings to a fault but can't change whom I am. I am passionate about love and romance. I think it's smart to avoid romantic temptation when you have a good thing in front of you. I think life is beautiful and good, although often not fair. I am not perfect, or a saint, but pretty easy- going, and patient. I can get hot tempered when people put down the U. S., are rude or cruel. I love animals. I love the outdoors. I also need the amenities of civilization. (Air conditioning, long hot steamy showers, king sized bed, leather upholstery, good food, wine, and beer to name a few!) I love and family. I love the cinema and the guts it takes to perform in any venue or the talent it takes to make a work of art, music or the written word. I love to converse about life and the world. There's more but lets talk about you now! I know the woman I give myself to forever will be the one I will be holding hands with in the park on warm summer Sunday evenings many years When the world has you cornered, it's cold fingers grasping at your back, will you take my hand so we can face it together? When our lips touch, can you taste the hunger raging within me like a roaring sea? When I touch you, can you feel the warmth from deep within? When you are scared, will you rest your head on my shoulder, and feel safe and secure? Will you share laughter with me, and when sadness occurs, let me wipe away the tears? When we stand under the silvery moon in silence, will we converse without having to say a word? When the day is long and weary, will the sound of my voice lift you higher then a soaring eagle? When you drift off to sleep at night, will you feel my arms around you, holding you with a confident embrace? Will you share your dreams with me? And bare your fears? When the morning comes, and you wipe away the sleepy night, will you realize this is what you've been searching for? And now a lifetime together seems so short. When I look into your eyes, strong and sincere, can you feel the passion, the electricity running through your every vein? Will the words I love you, always sound like the music from the angels? Will you feel me walk into the room, and know the passion burning inside me? The need to have you, to want you, to show you. Will you hold love in your hand like a gentle , and let it mature into something strong, free, and true? To be all that it can be and more then you ever imagined. We all want the sunsets, the moon lit walks, the picnics in the park, the quiet nights at home. When all is said and done, and the sun has set, the moon gone to sleep, the music has faded, If you don't have the things I've mentioned above, it makes those things seem so irrelevant. This is what I am, this is what I have to offer . . . to the right woman. A dream? Possibly, but I believe in it, and we all have the power to make dreams come true.

My Ideal Person I like to have fun. I own a boat and enjoy boating & socializing in the summer. It's a down to earth club, not a snotty high brow type atmosphere. We visit other clubs by water as/in Great Kills or Haverstraw NY as well as NJ clubs.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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